Re: Wife cheated with a girl friend, don't know what to do..? microtech1: Hey Chris I agree with everyone else cheating is cheating! You sound like you have already made the decision that this is not going to happen. Stick to it and let her know it is not appropriate. She sounds confused and maybe you taking charge will help her wake up. Good luck to you and I pray for you and your family that things work out for the best.
Micro
Re: Wife cheated with a girl friend, don't know what to do..? Lumpy: Live together while divorced!?!? For the kids' sake? She says she has made a mistake but isn't willing to give up her friend? Sounds like she's very confused. Have you told her your feelings regarding them staying friends?
Re: Wife cheated with a girl friend, don't know what to do..? ajw: Well you can't make this work with the other person still in the picture.You wife turned her girlfriend into a threat to your marriage and its unfair for her to think that she can continue being friends.You know what you have to do.....your marriage does'nt have a chance in hell while your wife is still in contact with her gf,your at some point going to decide if your going to put up with being marginilised and pushed to one side by your wife because she thinks that whatever she does you won't leave her or are you going to do what needs to be done.
good luck
Andy
Re: Wife cheated with a girl friend, don't know what to do..? Chris101: Thanks again everyone for your replies, I've told her to make a choice last night between the gf and me. She doesn't want to make one right away because she is too confused and worried about making the wrong one, what an understatement that is. So I told her to leave until she figures things out, it was the hardest thing I've ever done because I'm sure I wont win this race. Also she has no where to go but the this girls house, so thats where she is now:(
The story gets more interesting, she admitted last night that she loves this girl, but loves me also. She has known her for only about 8 months, and she also has a husband but no kids. The GF and her husband where kind of split when this happened but recently got back to together. I haven't told the gf's husband what I know, should I? I asked if the gf had told him what happened and they said that he knows they fooled around but made it out to be just a curiosity thing and supposedly he accepted that.
What a terrible train wreck of a mess!
Re: Wife cheated with a girl friend, don't know what to do..? lostboy: Oh Man, I can relate to this all too well. My wife just recently addmited to me that she was a lesbian and had cheated on me with another woman. one of her "friends" Same boat man. The wife is out of the house living with this girl. She's decided she's not attracted to me anymore and has pretty much made her decision. Yes I also agree with everyone else. cheating is cheating regardless. I wish you luck. I hope to hear back that your wife made the decision to stick around and you work things out. But be prepared for the opposite.
Take Care.
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