Finally Filing vonmon69: After numerous attempts to reconcile (sure, each one only lasted a few days before he was back with the OW), I've finally decided to file.
He came home today and completely out of the blue told me he was going to her house for dinner tonight. He's playing me like a fiddle!!
So I'm done. And sadly, he's hurt me so badly that I can't even cry - I'm just numb. After giving him six years of my life, he doesn't care even one tiny bit how much he's hurting me or how this will affect our 8 month old son.
I feel like I'm losing everything - my husband/family, his family (who are more like my family than my own is), the chance to show my son the importance of marriage.
I just need some positive words - I'm not sure I can make it through this.
Re: Finally Filing justmenow: Oh Von, I'm so sorry. You will make it through this - being in limbo is just the worst. I'm glad you've finally got to the breaking point and made a decision. Nobody deserves that kind of treatment and you deserve more love than that. We will always, always, always be family no matter what. :'(
