What Men want 5-7. Cowboy12: 5. Men want you to look great. Some women call this the "trophy" mentality. Just go to a sporting event (like a football game or baseball game) and check out the player's wives and girlfriends. They are often quite nice looking with top-shape bodies. Of course, many of these women are also attracted to the "star" image or athlete's physical body. Looking great does not mean you have to look like these people. I point them out because of society's status, but please consider our perspective of how we look more important than a societal viewpoint of what looks best. Certainly, watching weight, eating and drinking healthy food and water, and working out a few times a week also has benefits to our own emotional, mental, physical and spiritual health. It is important to love our body. When we love our body, why shouldn't our partner love it, too? Even if you are "working on it," sending loving thoughts to your body will help you achieve physical goals and happiness more than sending out negative thoughts. Our confidence is attractive to most people, and it counts in looks, too. Confidence is sexy. And men love sexy women. Why did Marilyn Monroe have such popularity? Because she was sexy. So, do your best to look great, stay in shape, dress attractively, and display a confident and sexy attitude. Watch how much more attention you'll receive from the man in your life.
6. Men want you to listen to them and treat them with respect. I've recently heard a woman say that she felt men were not respecting her, but then a few moments later used the phrase "well you men ..." in her speech. This indicates a tendency towards negatively judging men. Sometimes, we get back what we give out, and what we say to each other DOES matter. Instead, when we give love, kindness, and respect, we will experience the law of abundance in action. Men listen differently than women do. Women tend to nod their head and make comments, such as "ah, uh-huh, wow, yes, right" during conversation to indicate they are listening and involved. Men tend to listen like a wall, quietly observing until the other person finishes their statement. Being sensitive to this difference in how men and women communicate (and adapting, as appropriate) will improve communication between partners.
7. Men need you to give them private time to be left alone, to spend on hobbies and sports, and to spend time with other men. Some men need a few minutes to unwind when they walk in the door before sharing the day's challenges. Some women need this space, too, but I've noticed that most women I've dated prefer to launch into the daily review, while I'd really just like a hug, a kiss, and then some quiet space for a few minutes to unwind prior to reviewing the day together. Do what works best for your relationship. I find that a sincere and compassionately deep hug upon greeting is nice, followed by a thirty-second kiss sometime in the next few minutes, helps re-establish that "connected" feeling. Did I just say 30 second kiss? Yes, I did. Why? Because a peck kiss does nothing to establish nor maintain romance. It requires a longer kiss to do that. So, use your kissing to your advantage and keep the passion alive between you!
Re: What Men want 5-7. Smiley17: And we're the complicated sex? ::) That's just way too much reading!! LOL
Re: What Men want 5-7. Cowboy12: Hey SG ....who the FCUK said I read it either......for god sake woman I am a man....LOL far too much detail in there for me....as well.
As if I care what men want .... I only know what I want...and damm it Sandra Bullock got married last week...b1tch ....I was here waiting...we could of been so goooooddd together.
Re: What Men want 5-7. Smiley17: OMG!!! I want to be Sandra Bullock!! She's awesome!
Yeah, I didn't bother reading all of that. I am all of those things just by skimming over them! No good man has graced me with his pressence yet... :(
Re: What Men want 5-7. Cowboy12: listen SG, if you can turn into Sandra Bullock, I am on the first flight over there Girl ......... ;D ;D
PS..... Unlike Bubba ..I am not scared of you.... I think
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