Re: Is it wrong? little_sparrow: I agree. Few people heed those types of warning even though they are the exact warnings we should heed.
best of luck
Re: Is it wrong? hudson: You never know onedayattime, during the process of your relationship with this feller you may find that you've become ready for a relationship. Give it time.
If you have the "messing around" in perspective, if it's not creating a lot of awkwardness between the two of you, I wouldn't cut it off, cause you probably won't be able to anyway. ;D
It's interesting, I've been seeing this woman, we've progressed at a pretty slow pace, mostly friends, some messing around, and periodically I get scared and back waaay off. Only to get back together with her because she's so sweet and cool and young and friendly. Point being, I'm starting to get comfortable with this girl. I'm starting to get used to her being "my girl", and it ain't so bad. We'll see what happens. Trial and error sometimes...onward we go.
Re: Is it wrong? poochie: i wish you luck, emotions sure do go crazy with a new fella huh? god bless...........
Re: Is it wrong? one day at a time: Things are getting awkward. I had a birthday and new guy went crazy, cake, roses sent to my work, a painting he made of me, etc... it was really sweet and I appreciate everything. I thought I was going to have one of the worst birthdays of my life and he made it a very special day for me. Anyway, he crashed at my place that night and gave me a massage (nothing serious) but just feeling someone touching me made me want to cry. I still love my ex and he is the only person I want touching me. So I told new guy how I felt and he said he's going to back off and that he totally understands, but he's said this before and never does. He always ends up flirting, etc.. I think I'm going to need to take some distance from him. This sucks. I should have asked for advice from you guys sooner. :-[
