Re: do they stay with the OW/OM?? homebrew1969: [quote"> I recall thinking about this sort of thing when it all happened. Things like, oh you just wait, it won't work. Or I can't wait till she crashes and burns. Now, I just feel sorry for her. I know she isn't happy, but I know she trapped herself....[/quote">
I no longer feel sorry for my X g/f of 7yrs. I used to earlier in our relationship which was a big mistake that almost destroyed me in the end. I have no control over her promiscuity, heavy drinking, drugs, etc. Her fate lies in her own hands & not mine. I'm more mad at myself for letting her take advantage of me & thinking that she could possibly change for the better.
Re: do they stay with the OW/OM?? Failedjedi: Does it matter ? really if they stay together ? If it does to you shouldnt you be asking a different question ?
Chances are cheaters dont stay together check the stats online, most lack something within themselves to stay in a commited relationship.
The real question you should be asking yourself is why do you care?
The next question is....
How long before and if your ready to meet someone that will truly enrich your life....
Re: do they stay with the OW/OM?? abc123: i think it does matter a little, it might clear your mind a little while you recover. theoretically speaking you shouldnt care, but for some reason it helps me know that shes not doing well...
Re: do they stay with the OW/OM?? Failedjedi: OK I am gonna walk down that dark side of myself just for a second or three....
To be totally and completly honest, I have a big side of me that wants to know my X will fall on her face, nonone will ever date her again , she will get hit by a bus and be paralyzed from the waste down and be forced to watch barney for eternity, and that her OM will leave her for OW..
Hmm I think I will shut that door on my nasty persona for a bit.......
Re: do they stay with the OW/OM?? tyrogers: Not something I think about, but: Mine stayed with the OW (who was his 1st ex-wife). He is still with her. It was the best thing he could have done financially, he was already paying $340 a month for their son, then he had to pay a nice chunk to me for our daughter, and considering he would have to pay for his illegitimate child as well......lets just say he is better off back with her. Whether or not he is happy, I don't know and don't care. I wish them well and hope it works for them. No hard feelings.
BBH
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