Common sense for the CHEATED ON 10 ways Failedjedi: I felt this may help someone or even one person if they have been through actually what I am going through and can put it to use. I have done my bit for good Karma.
1. Know yourself and accept what you can accept and be true to yourself, even the dark side which we all have
2. Go get professional one on one help
3. Realize The cheater is the one that stepped out of the marriage and you can DO better thats harsh but true, everyone that is faithful deserves a faithful partner.
4. Know the choices you make are yours alone and you are accountable for the good and bad
5. Realize that sometimes a sinking ship cannot be saved, some can but most often its best for you and your children to get out if its gone to this point, generally speaking
6. Are you getting your needs met ? If not will they ever be met ? if the honest answer is NO then you have your answer plain as day
7. Relaize that ALL of us deserve to be Happy and feel a certain way
8. CHEATING IS NEVER COOL, its the cardinal sin in a marriage " or a relationship ", not only you would have to be strong to get over it but the cheater would have to be equally strong if not stronger some people are not cut out for that and rightfully so
9. IF you take your time and become well and centered in time you can and WILL meet somone that will treat you right "fact"
10. Be cool and be kind, be strong and be fair, realize you are human and my heart goes out to you.....
My fave saying is "Truth is a 3 edged sword, thier side, your side and the real truth"
