Re: What the .... am I doing? alonewith2: [quote author=kizzmekate72 link=topic=16517.msg139961#msg139961 date=1123185933">
Thanks for inferring that I am more concerned about him than my child.
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I'm sorry if I came off that way. In your first post, I didn't understand why you were spending so much time on your husband who was wanting to be with other people, but you only mentioned your daugher like twice. I can understand more of your story with your subsequent posts and it makes more sense. I apologize greatly to you if you feel I was putting you down, because that was not my intentions. What I was trying to say (but did such a poor job) was that it seemed the issues with your husband seemed to be at a standstill so why not just put all your concentration on getting your daughter back and then once that has happened, focus your attention back on your issues with your husband. Maybe if you "shelve it" for a little while, it may work itself out. Working together to get your daughter back might open his/your eyes to your other issues.....
