He has no right..... starzluv: how dare he tell me this is hard on him too.he has no right to say it. he's the one who walked out. he's the one who wanted this. he's the one who doesn't want to work on our marriage. or at least that's what he says one minute, and then when i tell him he has no right to say this is hard on him and tell him all the things that hurt me and him how one minute he's making me feel like we might be able to work things out and the next minute i feel like there is no hope for us all he says is "you haven't even been served with the papers yet" well i can't very well be served with them till he goes ahead and files. i just don't know what he is doing anymore. Does he want a divorce or not. i'm soo tired of this. i want him to come home, but i WILL NOT wait for much longer. i am doing things to get myself set up as if he is never comming back. once i am set, if he comes back, will i still want him to? i don't know. i love him, but i want him to come back and be a real husband and father. if he does come back, is he going to be? i don't know. All i know now is HE HAS NO RIGHT TO TELL ME THIS IS HARD ON HIM TOO. HE DID THIS, NOT ME. HE WALKED AWAY. I DIDN'T.
Re: He has no right..... slickwilly: AMEN
Re: He has no right..... Older Guy: He is a selfish bozo........he made a decision he should live with it and shut the hell up.
He's not good enough for you.
Here....enjoy this [size=14pt"> [color=red"> (((((HUG)))))[/color"> [/size"> and go do soemthing nice for yourself.
Re: He has no right..... starzluv: thanks, it's good to know i'm not alone in feeling he doesn't have a right to tell me it's hard on him.
Re: He has no right..... Older Guy: Screw him...he made his bed so now he can sleep in it.
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