Just gotta get it out... Suddenly Single: I have no business writing you and you will never see this letter but I think I need to do this for me to get it out there. I have to because you are hurting people I care about and people I love.
Dear *****,
I think that you are unlike any person I have ever met before. You are a liar, cheater and a hypocrit. I don't understand how someone could sleep with other men and then come home to your husband and children...for months. I find that disgusting and just the lowest thing that I have ever heard of. How can someone cheat on their own children? Makes my stomach turn. Of course, you never really were a mother or wife were you? You just wanted these things because you thought it would fill the void of the empty shell of a human that you are.
I hear you can't sleep well at night and I'm glad because I was wondering how someone could walk around acting like you and sleep well. I don't know how you can stand to live in your skin. You are the most selfish, insensitive and hypocritical person I have ever come in contact with. I wish for just 1 hour you could be a rational human being so you could read your emails, reflect on your behavior and see the pain you are causing your own children....then maybe you would change. But that will never happen. A few people have called you bipolar - well I don't think so. I think that all you care about is yourself and your behavior reflects it.
I wish you would just leave and do whatever it is I know you are going to do anyway. Your children would be better off. You are not a role model for them. That is what scares me and hurts me the most is that you are an influence on those kids - you are instilling negative qualities in them. I know. Why? Cause I can see it already. You are a poor excuse for a human being and I feel sorry for you. However, they are very smart children and they will know. They are already starting to see what you are. We never bad mouth you - we never say anything about you. What negative things they are learning about you - honey - is what you are teaching them. But you continue to fool yourself thinking that it is ***** or me or his parents bad mouthing you and turning them against you. You can think that and dig your grave further. Keep those blinders on - it has been working well for you so far hasn't it?
You punish others for your actions for your inability to act with any type of class or feeling. I honestly don't know what is wrong with you. I just hope for the kid's sake that you just stop this behavior or just leave.
Your actions are not hurting me or *****. In fact we are stronger despite you. But you continue to fool yourself thinking you have some power over us - that is fine.
I just wish you would leave everyone alone. POOF! Dissappear...go on girl...no one is going to notice.
Re: Just gotta get it out... Suddenly Single: PS - I wish you could have heard all the things your daughter said about you this week. The hurt - the confusion. We could see the lies you are perpetuating in her - she is starting to see it too...that is why she is so confused. UGH...STOP putting the kids in the middle. Stop asking questions - stop making comments - stop being so hypocritical stop it stop it stop it. START acting like a mother who cares.
Re: Just gotta get it out... alonewith2: I have no respect for people who use thier kids......the kids will grow up and realize it, and it will backfire!!! I went through it myself as a kid and have seen it happen to others. Stand strong, give the kids your own support, and in the long run they will ultimately repay you with their love and back away from her!!
Re: Just gotta get it out... Suddenly Single: S-N-B,
I agree with you. This situation has just gotten out of control. The kids say "Mom lies a lot to you." to my boyfriend and he just doesn't know what to do..if he confronts her ... then isn't he putting them in the middle by letting her know what they tell him....You are right...just have to support them and in the long run either she'll get tired or they will just get tired of it.
UGH.
Re: Just gotta get it out... alonewith2: He should just tell them that sometimes adults act like kids, but he loves them and will do whatever it takes to make them happy....tell them that he will always answer any questions they might have (based on the things she tells them) that way they will feel comfortable enough to discuss their issues with him and will feel that he is speaking honestly!! He should in no way put down the mother to them because then they will feel that he is no better than her. If for some reason the subject ever comes up with their mother.....he should just say that he is taking the high road and leave it at that!! Eventually she will get the picture that manipulating the kids is not going to work to get a rise out of him or it will just show her true immaturity and atleast he (and you) will know that you're at a much higer class level.....The kids will appreciate it too!
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