SO CONFUSED (AND ANGRY) ColoHill: So, you want to stop seeing her on your own terms...Yet, you want to fix our marriage? I am confused here. You can't do both. Well, you can but since you have had two months since I found out (and believed you when you said you quit talking to her) and now when you tell me you still are, and you haven't quit talking to her, I don't expect you to come to that conclusion any time soon. How the he11 can you tell me that you want to work on this, but I am supposed to be okay with you still hanging out with that stupid b!tch you slept with??? If you need her so much, go to her. Leave me alone. Let me finish this. If you want to make this work, commit yourself to it. I can already see where this is headed. I'm angry with myself because I find myself stalling...And, angry with him for being a lying, selfish, hypocritical, mfing, sob!!!!
Re: SO CONFUSED (AND ANGRY) Failedjedi: hmm please follow Recipe in Recipe section of this site and bake him something "nice" :D
That may help
Go to special recipe for X post :D
Re: SO CONFUSED (AND ANGRY) ColoHill: I did see that one... :o
Re: SO CONFUSED (AND ANGRY) Lumpy: [quote author=MissingU link=topic=16597.msg139958#msg139958 date=1123185755">
So, you want to stop seeing her on your own terms...Yet, you want to fix our marriage? I am confused here. You can't do both. Well, you can but,
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You were right the first time. You CAN'T!!! There's no but!!! Don't allow him the but! (literally and figuratively)
Re: SO CONFUSED (AND ANGRY) ColoHill: Lumpy,
You are right. In my frustration, that came out different than I inteded. He can't. Very true. This is the conversation I keep having in my head. We haven't talked again since Tuesday when I stayed home from work. I said that then but I don't think it totally sunk in for him...We'll see in a day or two when we talk again. This has been a really hard time and I have found myself avoiding him until the shock part wears off and the initial anger flares die down some. That way, we can have a rational and calm discussion. I think it will be more telling him than us "discussing" anything. But, yes, you are right as you almost always are. ;)
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