Shes gone hurtinbad: Its been months in the coming, but it finally happened. Shes staying at the apartment now. For some reason, this hurts more than I thought it would.
I had to get out. Went to the gym for a quick workout, then to a friends house for poker.
I just want this to be over. I don't want her back anymore. She has said so many things that I don't think I could ever forget. I want a divorce, but I don't want a fight. Have to think of a way to make it mutual. She wanted one before, but I think it was more a power play than anything.
Re: Shes gone Lumpy: Is she changing her tune? She has moved out or back in? Not sure I'm following you.
Re: Shes gone hurtinbad: Sorry. She moved out. She has not wavered on her desire to do that.
Re: Shes gone Older Guy: hurtinbad - i undestand how you feel .....but don't worry...my wife left at the end of July. For me its gotten better fast and helped put spme distance between us. It might even help you get pissed off at her which will help put some emotional distance between you and her. You'll be thinking that "bi%^h instead of focussing on the good parts of what you lost.
Bob
Re: Shes gone hurtinbad: Yes, that is what it is doing. I am mad at her. I want a divorce. I think of her as a selfish b!tch.
I have read your story, and feel like it is mine, with a month lead time. I fully expect it to go the same way.
I don't trust her, and with her having her own place, I trust her even less. I don't care any more. I give up.
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