Re: Does it get easier after you move out? Bubba: No worries, KFC. My little guy was like 18 months when we started it. Of course, I admit it, I actually did about 60% of the child care be we split so I wasnt worried. I always charged the diapers far more then my ex. Any time we were out I did the changing. Any time he was sick, I got up. Still, I can see how you would be worried, but trust me it isnt that bad at all. You will get into pattern pretty quick. Next thing you know, you will be a regular Mr Mom!
Bubba
Re: Does it get easier after you move out? whatnext: Go Mr. Moms! I'm one, too.
You'll do fine. Just imagine how good you'll feel when YOU have all the answer for child rearing.
Re: Does it get easier after you move out? dgiirl: I cant imagine living with a spouse who wants out of the marriage. I was blessed that he left the next day. At the time I wished he didnt, because I thought if we were still living together we could make it work. But looking back, I would not have been able to heal had he been there. It was torture the first few months. I greived a LOT. But over time, things got better. I was able to reflect a lot on our relationship, what were the problems, what I was feeling, how things fed into each other. Everything became clearer. I still hope for a reconcillation. But if it's over, truely over, it's best to be apart asap. You'll heal much faster.
