Re: Wow! BarbJo: Mart,
I am sooo sorry you are going through this. I do know how you feel. My husband and I have been married for 11 years. I have a 2 year old and 3 year old. Every day he calls and wants to come see the kids. I say yes because I don't want him to think I am keeping the kids from him. It hurts to see him walk out that door every night. I keep telling him to come over because I think someday he will stay. He made it perfectly clear to me yesterday that we are not getting back together. I can't keep putting myself through that. I have to think about myself now. He can just come over every day and not work it out.
You need to keep telling yourself what I am. HE LEFT ME!!!
You need to get strength in that for yourself. Move on. Who knows...you could get back together someday. But for now you need to live for you! We need to let these men know that we are not going to stop our lives for them. Because they don't know what they want. Keep your head up!!! We can stand tall together.
Good Luck!
Barbjo ;)
Re: Wow! Mart: [quote"> You need to keep telling yourself what I am. HE LEFT ME!!!
You need to get strength in that for yourself. Move on. [/quote">
He left me, he left me, he left me... God that hurts, but I will continue to say it. Maybe one day it won't hurt as much!?!
Thank you for the support.
I am seeing him again today...
Re: Wow! Mart: Hi,
I saw him on Sunday. We had planned to play tennis but we started to talk about many things, including what to do with the house. We are playing tennis tonight instead.
He said that he noticed I was not doing too well this weekend, that I was crying more often than last week. He asked if he could spend more time this week at the house with me, so he can help me since my family are gone on a trip. I said yes.
Why can't he be a jerk so I can hate him? He is sweet, nice and understanding. Is he doing that because he wants us to stay friends? We never fought before so I guess we would not start now. But I wish I could just hate him, at least a bit, so it would be easier to move on without him.
Mart
Re: Wow! mine: mart
you dont mean this....
Re: Wow! Mart: I don't mean what?
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