Re: i just want my stuff

Re: i just want my stuff amola: [quote author=suck-n-blow link=topic=17070.msg146575#msg146575 date=1124052935"> ......is there any reason why you can't go get the stuff yourself? Just show up there sometime when you know he is home and tell him you're not leaving until he gives you your stuff!![/quote">

i am honestly not sure where he lives. he was in the process of renting a place with his cousin and buddy when all this went down, and i was never invited there. i saw the address on the rent receipt, and i know the street (it's a trailer park) but i can't remember the house number. wouldn't be too hard to find. i'm not going to go over there uninvited because knowing him he would do something stupid like press charges.

however, i did just call and leave him another voice mail that said "ok fine, just tell me when and where and i will come pick up the stuff".........

probably won't help. i really just want to call him and scream and yell and rip into him but i won't. dammit.
Re: i just want my stuff Suddenly Single: Hey Amola, I know it is easier to give the advice than to take it...but maybe if you let go of the importance of getting it back....then you will get it back? You know what I mean? Sometimes we get so attached to the outcome that we screw up getting what we want...so if you just sort of put it on the back burner and let it go....he may all of the sudden be like...hey..i've got this stuff here...I'm going to drop it off? I don't know...wishful thinking on my part...I'm in a funk again so I am not making much sense...I just know how you feel with wanting certain things because of the sentiment they hold.