Re: Should I leave the house? alonewith2: I allowed my STBX to watch the kids here at the house because he couldn't while staying at his sister's. He usually only came over during the day and would leave after they went to sleep. It wasn't the same as taking them for the whole weekend, but I was still able to have my freedom during the day. He volunteered to stay the night with the kids (and sleep on the couch) should I ever want to go out at night after they went to bed, but I never took him up on that offer. Since then, he has found his own apartment and now takes his daughter every other weekend.
Re: Should I leave the house? insomnia: Dont leave the house... i did, and now i am like a stranger in a house that i own... it hurts me everytime i have to go there and ring the doorbell... it hurts me when i see him continuing his life in the house that we built together.... it hurts me when the OW comes there too. i never thought that i would have these feelings, but i do....
