Re: Anyone else in this situation? genesplicer: I can 100% relate to what you're saying. I met my stbx when I was 16, we went to college together, knew everything about each other. 10 years later now and it's all crashing down.
It does pretty much suck to lose that person you could talk to about anything and they would understand. Right now I just can't really image finding anybody else like that again..
well hopefully someday ???
Re: Anyone else in this situation? jadedangel: [color=navy"> That is absolutely the thing I miss the most from my breakup. Sure, there are all the wonderful things a lover does ... but at the very bottom of it all.. it's the best friend that was always there ...he was there before the first kiss, he was there before the 'I love you" .. and he was there before anything evolved into a relationship.....
I just can't get over how my very best friend could do this to me ... and feel absolutely nothing in doing it. That betrayal is the one that kicks me in the stomach the most ... because if my best friend can walk away .. what did I really have in the first place? [/color">
Re: Anyone else in this situation? Mart: It is hard not to have your best friend there anymore. My ex was my best friend. My other friends are great but they don't know me like he does and they do not have all the same interests that he and I shared. We shared our interests with his friends and had many plans together (skiing in Whistler, olympics in Italy, and mountain climbing treks). Guess with whom they decided to stay friends with... him... I do understand.... they were friends before I met them but he only became interested in mountain climbing once he met me. I do miss my best friend dearly.
Needless to say... no beating from me.
