Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... mjhjane1977: Feel free to ramble on any ol' time. I feel that way about my x. My x went from his old fiance's apartment back to his mommy's then to mine and then back to mommy's. He has never had his own place with his own things. His mom was glad when he moved out of her house because she didn't have to take care of him and was angry at me when he returned because she had to take care of him again. His family even offered money t me to keep him. Isn't that sad? He isn't an invalid. He can do his own laundry and other sh-t on his own. Him and his mom often go to singles funtions together. There relationship is weird and they fight like crazy. I can tell when she is mad at MLTT because she is nice to me, but when they have social plans together she is rude and a b-tch. Every other visitation she tries to either start a fight with me or try to give me letters from him. He cannot have any contact with me due to a restraining order. They are a sad duo and when I address them through my lawyer I act as if they are an item. Shouldn't do this, probably just fuels the fire. She is like fifty-five or so, he's 36 and I'm only 27. Least I stilll have my youth and two beautiful children.
Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... toughgirl1029: I had to laugh when I read this post!!! My STBX is 41 years old and still on his mom's breast! Every time we had a problem-he ran to mommy. When we started these serious problems that resulted in the divorce--he told his momma, who in turn ran her mouth to his kids. UGH!! Some men never, ever cut that cord!!! As a matter of fact--our relationship was always a threesome...me, him and mommy dearest! This is the same woman that told me I'd have noone to blame but myself when her grandson commits suicide!!! UGH!!
Thank God my parents stay out of my life!!!!
Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... Mart: I guess some men look more for a motherly figure in their wife, than a partner in life. They look for someone who will take care of them like their mother did.
Maybe women do the same thing? They look for their fathers in their husband?
Have you seen the movie entitled Monster in law? ....ok it was not that bad.
Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... jillieb44: Ooh, I hear ya on that with the MIL babysitting -- that's always what my ex did when his mother was alive. If I had to leave him with the kids for more than an hour for whatever reason, he always called his mother over to babysit. And he still would except that she passed away a while back....now he can watch the kids by himself only cuz they're older and they go next door to their friends' houses and leave him alone.
Jillie
Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... Mart: I really need to understand that mother/son relationship and the mother in law/daughter in law relationship. I read books on this issue, but ....
Does anyone have any other insights on this issue?
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