Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... Shanna: We from this point forward shall call him MLTT Mamma's little tit tit.
Welcome to Ojar. Glad you found us!!
Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... WhiskeyGirl: [quote author=mjhjane1977 link=topic=17105.msg146110#msg146110 date=1123993212">
My ex lives with his mother, all of a sudden appears to be incapable of taking care of our son and will not follow through with his visitation unless his mommy is home to babysit while he goes out. This really perturbs me. They cancel their once a week visitation because of their social lives and due to that visit being "inconvenient" for them. What the f-ck!!! Since when does being a parent have anything to do with convenience. He doesn't pay any child support, nor does he help with bills, health insurance also he has no living expenses since he lives with his mommy. But they complain about having to pay for a lawyer for the divorce. His mother gripes at me for divorcing her baby boy and that she has to pay for his lawyer. She is stupid and I hate them both and hope that when they meet their maker they reside down under together. I didn't realize that a fifty-seven year old grandma could still lactate. By the way just got a computer and found this site today, don't know the lingo but love the this site....
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ummmmm, yeah.....ditto to your entire post.....welcome to OJAR Jane!!
Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... gulfcoast: does this mean it is wrong for me to be 30 and have my mom still making me a lunch for work?
Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... mjhjane1977: thank you for all your replies, they make me smile :) :) :) :) MLTT sounds good to me and hey gulfcoast make your own lunch, you can doooo it.
Re: Is your ex still on the breast? His mother's of course.... Mart: Welcome to Ojar!
Yes gulf coast, it is wrong for you to have your mother make your lunch at 30 years old!!!!!! Are you still living with your mother?
OK guys.... cut the umbillical cord!!!! You can't run to your mother every time something goes wrong! That's what my ex did, he is living with is parents now. His mother cooks, makes his lunch, does his laundry, go to the movies with him, .... takes care of him.
Come on!!!!! No wonder why some people have difficulty to commit. They are so attached to their parents that they can't dettach themselves from them to completely attach/commit themselves to a woman/man.
Sorry for my frustrations... You have touched a soft spot. My ex never cut the umbillical cord. The therapist (she met him a few times) says that it might be the reason that he was unable to get married to me (he cancelled our wedding, 1 week before the date), that he had cold feet. He might of chosen his mother over me. Since we got engaged, his mother kept on saying that she felt like she was losing her only son/child. Funny, I thought she was gaining a daughter. Don't get me wrong, I had a good relationship with his mother, and she did love me, but hey have a very very strong relationship.
My ex's 2 best friends are also living with their parents, so they do not see his relationship with his parents to be a problem at all. We are all in our thirties. I am also very close to my parents but I do not kiss my father on the lips, tell him I love you everytime I speak with him or give him long hugs.
Geez... a very soft spot for me.
Sorry mjhjane for rambling on your post! ;D
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