Serious Question... lonelywithouthim: SO here's how today went..
I thought my water may be leaking... not a good sign as I'm only 22 weeks pregnant.
I called my stbx to let him know, and see if he wanted to ride along, should I choose to go to the hospital. He did not answer. I couldn't believe it. I haven't made my mind up if it's my water or not so I haven't went yet, and I don't want to go alone. What on earth could cause someone to be SO cruel? Does he not realize that if my water breaks this early on and I give birth that our baby has NO chance of survival? So my question is... if I end up going tonight, do I stop by his apartment and just knock on the door? Or do I just say screw it, and give up all hope that he even cares about me and our unborn child? I'm really scared.. the only reason I haven't went to the hospital yet is because I know that if my water is leaking there isn't much that they can do unless i'm actually in labor, and it's just a wait and see type of thing where they will ultimately hospitalize me for the rest of my pregnancy. How depressing will that be? So what do you guys suggest?
Also.. please pray for my baby, if I lose her I will just die :'(
Re: Serious Question... BigRunner493: lonely....
i'm so sorry to hear about your day and the way it's going....
do you have any family members or friends that could go with you?? having him there, even though he is the father, may cause a lot of stress and right now that isn't what you need. i would call, just out of courtesy and if he doesn't answer then going to knock on his door isn't going to give you a different answer...
i'll say a few words for you in hopes that the baby will be ok....
br
Re: Serious Question... alonewith2: Why don't you go to the hospital......(your main concern right now should be the health of you and the baby).....and then call him from there if it turns out to be something serious?
Re: Serious Question... charmed: My thoughts and prayers are with you and your precious baby. I'm so sorry for your situation, but please put yourself and your baby first. You deserve that. Please keep us updated
((((hugs))))
`charmed
Re: Serious Question... wowee: If you have a genuine concern about what might be going on with your body or baby right now -GO TO THE HOSPITAL. Even if it is NOTHING, your peace of mind is better for the baby then sitting at home worrying & stressing out. As for your STBX, do not give him another thought right now - TRUST ME I know this is easier said then done, but it is essential for you. If he isn't willing to be there, there isn't anything you can do about it. Stressing about it or harping on him & trying to force him to be there won't change anything. Even if you did get him to come how much support is he really going to be when he didn't want to be there in the first place? If you are scared, go, if you want company, ask a friend or a family member they will be much more help to you right now then he will.
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