How dare you Erin: How dare you tell me to only email or phone you if "it's important"
How dare you think that you should be able to tell me out of the blue that you aren't happy and need your space and I should have NOTHING to say about it.
How dare you try to rip me apart to justify your leaving.
Yes, it is YOUR fault. You and your decision alone has devestated me, my family, your family and you. YOU made the choice, NOT ME.
How dare you tell my parents only months ago plans to buy my grandparents house.
How dare you go on a trip to Europe with me, fight to extend it a week ALL on MY dollar and leave 2 days after we get back.
How dare you keep going on and on about moving to another country for work for months and then tell me 4 days ago "it's not for you".
How dare you tell me that you love me.
How dare you to not have the balls to tell me any of this before it got to the point that it has in your head. Listen to your friends....no they aren't big things. You alone have made them big. YOU not me.
How dare you think that we can just sell the house, split the profit and have a clean break.
How dare you tell me, not even a month ago how much I mean to you.
How dare you tell me that you still love and care for me. This is not love or caring.
How dare you tell me that I am romanticizing you right now.
How dare you after all this time have no clue as to how much money is needed to run this house month to month.
How dare you "make love" to me the day before you left.
How dare you to expect me to have an abortion a week after finding out I was pregnant.
How dare you think I stopped you from doing anything you wanted.
How dare you talk to my boss about my job.
How dare you be so naiive to think this could be a clean break. There is nothing clean about a pregnancy, thoughts never shared by you, finances, work....There is nothing clean about it.
How dare you compare me to other clean breaks you've had, when you have never dated anyone more than 4 months and we've been together for 4 YEARS.
How dare you blame me for your insecurities.
How dare you run and not look me in the eyes, your "best friend and lover".
How dare you use ME to justify your reasons to leave. LOOK AT YOURSELF.
How dare you be angry at me right now for being hurt by the man that I love and am married to.
How dare you run without even trying.
How dare you think that any of this should be easy
How dare you think relationships should be easy and not need any work.
How dare you use my words from years ago and twist them to hurt me.
How dare you to not have the balls to face me, your wife pregnant with your child.
HOW DARE YOU!
Re: How dare you ajw: mmmm....ok i'm sensing a little hostility here!....lol
Get it out.....its good to vent,you keep all these feelings inside and one day your head and heart are going to go pop.
Andy
Re: How dare you Erin: A little hostility....
Well yeah I am angry, I have every right to be. I can't keep it inside, I don't need to go and screech this at him either (although I think he needs to hear it)!
I don't want to be angry and bitter with him, but I can't sit and wait like an idiot either.
Besides, I'll probably turn back into a crying mess in an hour or so...
Re: How dare you LostTeacher: good lines though.
went through this whole thing myself.
the whole "how could you"......tell me you love me, travel with me and be the 'perfect' husband, make holiday plans.
you need this anger, it's a step in the right direction.
but soon you will need to figure out a way to start to let go of that anger, as it will be the only way to move on.
believe me, it's ok to keep that anger....keep it for a while if you need to. but just keep that little bit of info in mind.
LT
Re: How dare you alonewith2: Well said. I couldn't get past the line about talking to your boss about your work....what was that all about?
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