Re: How dare you ajw: Well i suggest you print out that post....and on the day he decides he wants to try again and make your relationship work,i want you to sit him down and make him listen to every word as you read it to him.
I realise you are pregnant but you truly sound better off without him.
Andy
Re: How dare you barelybreathing: Your post reminds me of myself back when it all went down. I had that whole, "How dare you" attitude as well. Posing very similiar questions.
Rightfully so.
I have realized this, divorce is just plain ugly. It makes people act strange and inhumane. They cry love one day and scream hate the next. I guess it is the unraveling process. Detangling two lives that were once one.
It is carthardic for you to pose those questions. But remember, he may be in that divorce madness state of mind and may not be equipped to understand a word you are saying to him. And that will only make you worse in your anguish.
BB
Re: How dare you dnuthouse4me: This is the first posting that I read. Although I am not married, I am familiar with some of your feelings. I just finished reading the book Men Who Can't Love by Steven Carter and Julia Sokol. It is about commitmentphobic men. It would be worth reading.
Heads up. Everything in life happens for a reason.
