Why is he such a #$%^@#? gypsynikki: I nearly sold my house to move in with him. Then on second thought, I decided to rent it out instead and he says that me not selling meant I wasn't ready. What the #$%?
Then a week of total silence-- for all he knows I could have been chopped up in little pieces somewhere, he didn't even call to see how I was doing. So I call him. He asks me if I'm sad. I tell him that I'm sad about him. His response, " How can you be sad over something that you never had?" What a cold, heartless $#$^%%!!!!
Now he's completely moved on. I've been downgraded to an associate That's what he called me. An associate. To make matters worse, I'm sitting at home sad, depressed cut off from the world, feeling like I have no one and nothing and he's out having the time of his life with someone else. I heard her voice in the background when I called. Why am I torturing myself? Why do I hurt? I would give anything to find some kind of potion to just snap out of it. they say everything happens for a reason, so why did I have to meet him? What was the point?
I have more questions than answers and I'm tired of it being the 24 hour non-stop _____show. I go to bed thinking about him. I wake up thinking about him.
I've made a complete fool of myself. I practically begged to meet him. My head hurts from over analyzing his every word. And the bad part is I don't hate him. I can't. I've tried. If I could it would be soooo easy to get over it.
Re: Why is he such a #$%^@#? Erin: It's harder to give up hope then to move on.
I'm with you girlfriend....
((((HUGS)))))
Re: Why is he such a #$%^@#? alonewith2: An associate? What the he!! does that mean? That was really rude, I think. Maybe he thinks by being mean he's given you a chance to move on....in a sort of lame "push her away" method.....
Re: Why is he such a #$%^@#? brokenupgirl:
What an @@@hole! I'm so sorry, gypsynikki!
This guy is slick with his words. He probably has convinced himself that he's done nothing wrong. But, logical arguments don't erase what he did. He's an @ss.
For what it's worth, you're better off without him. Let him play his mind games with someone else.
Good luck to you, and take care.
