Re: Post Breakups do's & dont's: alonewith2: I really like this article...thanks for posting.
I'm not sure about the don't ask why segment. It is human nature to want to know the whys. No, we don't usually get a response, but sometimes it just has to be put out there. The point should be, if you don't get the why from the other person, than look at yourself, see what maybe you did wrong, and then try to improve upon yourself for the next person who enters your life.
Re: Post Breakups do's & dont's: *Tanya*: Wow, these make a lot of sense. Thanks so much for sharing. :)
Re: Post Breakups do's & dont's: malko: Thanks fiona, these are real good-reminded me of a few things!
Re: Post Breakups do's & dont's: mophead123: See but a lot of these apply to people who got dumped. I technically ended it with my ex because of the cheating but in reality had she really shown and proved herself and her committment. How much she screwed up etc...and made a strong effort, I may have considered getting back together. But I swore to myself it had to be her effort. And she never did...where the the post breakup do's & don'ts for us. Even though I ended it, I am just as hurt and feel just as betrayed. I expected her to really come crawling back more than the initial begging....
Just figured there are plenty of people on OJAR who have a similar story. One can dump and still be just as hurt or not even more hurt.
Re: Post Breakups do's & dont's: alonewith2: Mophead, I felt the same disappointment when my STBX didn't come back and want to work things out in the beginning. I think that's what really made it worse for me....his behavior after the fact.....
