Re: 2 months later ? callaway: First week felt sorry and cried a lot but I felt I had control over things. Then my X started to move his tuff which sent me into a depressive stage. Felt uncontrallably sad. Went to live with my dad for 1 week, which made things a bit easier. Moving home again I started to feel almost normal for a couple of weeks. At this point I told my friends this wasn't so bad ;) Then I had a meltdown again all of a sudden and basically got uncontrallable cryingspells everywhere. At work, being with friends, doing fun stuff, being alone. I felt totally unhinged, and didn't know what to do with myself. I decided to start a regular workout routine and now I'm feeling a tiny bit better at the two month mark. I still cry almost every day. I think about him every day. One hour I can feel totally content with my life and living on my own. The next hour I'm wrecked with sorrow and crying uncontrollable.
Re: 2 months later ? husky: it's normal. it's been 3 months for me and i still feel like crap sometimes.
Re: 2 months later ? unhappy: There are stages and everyone goes through them differently. Sometimes people are sent into a clinical depression-if you really feel that you are not getting any better maybe you should seek help from a dr. .Sometimes conceling can help. Its ok -- life will go on and you need to be able to make peace it all that has happened.
Good luck
Re: 2 months later ? Mooneyes: umm actually I think 2 months later was much harder than the first week. The first bit I was all- alright I'm going to get on with my life numb. But 2 months later I was starting to realize what was going on. It seems 6 months later I was starting to breathe and did things just for me.. like going to the beach.
It is a long process. We must be thankful for the strength and friends we find along the way.
