Re: Mail it or chuck it? mophead123: Wow...Thanks for all the quick replies. Ok...There could be hundreds of dollars or clothes and shoes..but then again, I haven't received anything. At this point I guess I she wouldn't be expecting to get it back. Thorugh this whole thing I always took the high road. Never bashed her even when I ended it. Didn't even raise my voice which is something that at the time was so difficult to do but now makes me so happy I acted in that manner. I was considering contacting the OM but decided against it for the same reason...I guess I was just thinking along those lines...
Re: Mail it or chuck it? BabygirlM: good for you. you ARE the better person. (i have to keep convincing myself that i am as well).
dont break the no contact....you will fall back so hard. dont get involved in that drama anymore. you have been much stronger than most of us here on ojar....dont let us down now....we strive to be you, and go this long without contact.
Re: Mail it or chuck it? lostboy: Burn it!
Re: Mail it or chuck it? qualt: hmmm, 100's of daollars worth of clothes. dont mail it or chuck it. go sell it to a second hand shop.
Re: Mail it or chuck it? Shanna: Do the right thing.....donate it to a woman's shelter or another non-charitable organizatin....seriously....
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