Anyone wants to reconcile? Change4better: Anyone who has initiated separation ever wanted to reconcile or wants to reconcile, after how long of separations.
Please let me know, As I’m hoping My STBX wife changes her mind.
I’m going on three months separations and 3 days legally?
Is there any hope for me?
BTW I was married for 15 years.
Re: Anyone wants to reconcile? Erin: I am with you....I am 2 days shy of 3 weeks and want him back.
But at the same time, can you really truly trust that person not to do this again?? At what point are you no longer there?
I wish there was a simple answer, but I don' t think that there is...
Re: Anyone wants to reconcile? mophead123: What are the undelying issues behind your separation.? Why was she unhappy? I think that plays a huge role...
Re: Anyone wants to reconcile? Change4better: 15 years of marriage, about 4 times seperated. this time she means business, at least she filled for seperation, so i do know that FOR now whe trully wants out..but can she change her mind again, under line reason bullet points
Miss Communication
some Trust Issues
and Not appriciating her..
Everything else is good, 2 kids, Love , respect
Right Now she doesn't call but when i pick up the kids, she is Nice with me, meaning talkative.. I don't call her or persue her, as I do know it will make matters worse, I know if she wants me back she will ask or drop hints, and I havan't gotten them yet.. I just wish we can reconsile, at same time I am doing what I have to do, to become a better person for Myself, making my self happier and doing things for myself, this is all that I can do,
Re: Anyone wants to reconcile? mophead123: Hey C4B,
I think it seems as if you already know the answer. I don't think there is any reason no stop remaining optimistic and hopeful as long as you realize that this will may or may not delay or impede your healing process. It appears you don't want to think that far ahead yet and are looking for a glimmer of hope from someone else's story that reconciliation is possible. Im not saying its not, but it does appear that you have done all you can. I think it might be healthy for you to prepare yourself if that does not occur as it will help you along in the process. Also, if she realizes how happy you are without her sometimes that can work the reverse psychology buttons. i wish I had a btter answer or more positive feedback for you.
Is there any way for you to show her ythat you have changed. Have you asked her if there is anything you can do to help the situation or improve things? Is there are 3rd party involved?
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