Re: Can anyone explain to me "I just don't love you anymore" kfc75: [quote author=whatnext link=topic=17571.msg152695#msg152695 date=1124725176"> Usually affairs happen because the relationship is failing, right? Not the other way around...
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I totaly agree, but still it makes you wonder if it was the nail in the coffin lid, in deciding between trying to work on the relationship and just bailing.
I guess I am just looking for closure
Re: Can anyone explain to me "I just don't love you anymore" tyrogers: Yes affairs usually happen because the relationship is failing (well that's the way I see it anyway). Had I not asked for the divorce, I may have cheated and been the cheater. However, I asked for the divorce. Honesty hurts sometimes, but in my case, it was the best way to do it.
BBH
Re: Can anyone explain to me "I just don't love you anymore" kfc75: [quote author=Bubba's Bama Hottie FOREVER link=topic=17571.msg152699#msg152699 date=1124725453"> Had I not asked for the divorce, I may have cheated and been the cheater. However, I asked for the divorce. Honesty hurts sometimes, but in my case, it was the best way to do it.
BBH
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You should be proud of yourself for not taking the easy way out, and maintaining for your honor!
Re: Can anyone explain to me "I just don't love you anymore" dgiirl: [quote author=kfc75 link=topic=17571.msg152691#msg152691 date=1124724862">
Part of me wonders if he was just giving her the push she needed to get herself out of a bad situation, or if it was the cause, I guess I will never know for sure.
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I dont think the OW/OM is the cause for the breakup of a marriage. They certainly have a major role to play and didnt help to save the marriage, but they were not the reason for the breakup. If someone's going to leave a marriage, it's fundamentally their own character flaw or something's been broken in the marriage for a while. And i think in every situation, there's something that you can learn about yourself.
Re: Can anyone explain to me "I just don't love you anymore" tyrogers: ;) Sometimes....I'm not the "bad" person. :-\
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