I'm new to this....so here goes... Gem72: I was married for 9 years, divorce final this year, we have 2 kids, I've been dating, I don't consider myself to be unattractive but I find myself going from one relationship to the next. I have several friends going through the same things I am and I can't figure out why is it that I have to have companionship in my life. Why can't I just be happy being alone. Sometimes I am (probably most of the time) but I do seek comfort from others (not sexually) but just wanting someone to hold me etc..
I recently was in a 5 mth relationship and although I knew it wouldn't work out in the long run I continued to hold on and I feel b/c I needed that comfort of knowing there was someone in my life. Eventually he ended the relationship (I am usually the one to end the relationships I've been in). This made me do things I never thought I would do...I didn't want to let go even though my mind said it was the right thing.
Now, I've been dating again. I've met some pretty good guys and now I find myself not wanting to get too attached for the reason I don't want to get hurt.
I just am at a loss. Take it a little easy on me....I am new to this....but I do like honesty....thanks!
Re: I'm new to this....so here goes... mine: hi gem
we all take it easy on you
do me a favour
please re post this on tell your story here
you will or should get more response
ant
Re: I'm new to this....so here goes... Gem72: Thanks....
Re: I'm new to this....so here goes... mine: you are welcome....
my time is nearly done on this site
everything is going well for me
but it has been a great help
feel free to send me a private message anytime....
it will always get sent to my email
ant
Re: I'm new to this....so here goes... Gem72: I really appreciate you responding to me. I was a little nervous to even get on a site like this but why not?
It just seems as though so many women I know tend to want a man in their lives. Like me, my friends and I are career-oriented, attractive and seem to have it all together but something on the inside makes us feel not complete unless if we have someone....I wish I could figure it out.....maybe in time.
I'm just trying to figure some of this out....maybe it has to do with us being married for so long and then not having that person in our lives anymore or the companionship.
I guess it is a good thing that your time on this site is almost complete....I hope you are happy!
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