Not calling at all thea7777: My husband totally has stopped calling me. I left a post earlier about the build up. He started a new over the road trucking job and has now stopped contacting me. He was contacting me less and less and I yelled at him and said that he would need to call or choose between me and the road. He called once, and said that I gave him an ultimatum and therefore I can plan on losing.
I can tell through the phone company that he is calling someone - its just not me. I don't have access to the phone numbers though :(. I don't know what to do. Is he leaving me? I'm so baffled and confused. I've left messages - trying to be as reasonable and non blaming as possible about ANYTHING - w/o response.
I don't understand what happened, my god - I JUST WANTED HIM TO TALK TO ME. He left and I thought everything was fine - no hints of cheating, no lessening of affection and closeness... NOTHING. What happened?? I don't know where to turn or what to do. It has been weeks now. I just feel so lost, sad, unsure, angry... my heart is breaking...
I never thought that I would lose my husband because I love him.
Re: Not calling at all thea7777: P.S. I'm not a possessive person - either. Last year I TRUSTED HIM enough to let him go on a trip wiht some freinds of ours and a friend of his from his old work that was a WOMAN i never met! He didn't let me down, but this is the kind of person I AM.
Re: Not calling at all brokenupgirl:
Dear Thea,
I'm really sorry for what you're going through. I hope you feel better soon, and get some answers from your husband.
To me, it sounds like he is dumping you. Maybe it's temporary and he'll come back and act like nothing happened and there was no big problem.
But, either way, do you want to put up with this?
You aren't being at all unreasonable! His behavior is inexcusable. The least he could give you is an explanation.
I say, stop calling and checking up on him and wait. He'll either come back or he won't. I don't know whether you should take him back, though.
Take care.
