Nice guy and other oxymorons edgecombe: Honestly, I have tried long and hard to stay optimistic about the chances of finding a nice guy.
Despite the fact that of all the married women I know, none of them are "happily" married....
Despite the fact that the last guy I dated told me he was a legal supervisor and ended up being a security guard...
Despite the fact that the guy before that borrowed $30 from me and I never heard from him again....
Despite the fact that the fiancee of a guy I met last weekend just called me at my job and asked me why I'm calling her man (WTF?)....
So now, I'm ready to give up. I'm beginning to think that if there ARE nice guys out there, they must not want to be with a nice girl like me. Someone told me a long time ago that relationships are never equally balanced, that one person is always more in love than the other person... that if one person is a comedian the other person has to be the straight man... that if one person is very outgoing the other person has to be more introverted. Apparently if one person is nice, the other person has to be an @#$%#. And I'm the designated nice person. I think I may start dating women... can one be a Heterosexual Lesbian?
There MUST be a better way....
Re: Nice guy and other oxymorons tyrogers: LMAO!!!!!!! Sorry, you SO made me laugh! :D
That is untrue. Bubba and I are both EXTREME extroverts. We are both very nice. He can be a badass but so can I just as much. We are both comedians. We are both flirts. The only thing we are opposite on is cleaning (he likes to do it, I hate it) and money management (he doesn't mind doing it, I hate it). LOL So, no, you do not have to be opposite to balance each other out.
There are good guys out there. Really, there are.
Chin up! You gotta sift through some dirt and rock before you hit the gold mine! ;D ;)
BBH ..
Re: Nice guy and other oxymorons Lumpy: [quote author=edgecombe link=topic=17609.msg153009#msg153009 date=1124747162">
I think I may start dating women... can one be a Heterosexual Lesbian?
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I believe that I'm a lesbian trapped in a mans' body! ;) All kidding aside, there's nothing wrong with being the nice person. Just try to not be the nice person that everyone steps on...
Re: Nice guy and other oxymorons hudson: nobody's nice all the time, and nobody's and asshole all the time, guaranteed.
my exwife thought she was a saint, she had everyone fooled into thinking she was a saint. Well, long story short, she wasn't a saint. Not only that, "nice" is subjective, "asshole" is subjective. What one person thinks is nice, someone else might see it as being a pushover, victim, wimp. What one person sees as an asshole, someone else might see as an ambitious, driven, go-getter, who doesn't take any shit.
Some people think I'm an asshole, and some people who know me better think i'm the nicest guy in the world. It's all about perception.
Re: Nice guy and other oxymorons LettinGo: [quote author=edgecombe link=topic=17609.msg153009#msg153009 date=1124747162">
Despite the fact that of all the married women I know, none of them are "happily" married....
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Hmmmm ... very interesting point. Now that I think of it, I don't know any either!
Kind of depressing ...
Kel
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