I filed today and can't stop crying BarbJo: I filed for divorce today. I was doing pretty good. Untill my husband called my sister and wanted to set up times for him to see the kids. I have my sister being the meteator for now. I know my kids need to see their dad. But I can't trust a word he says. He wants to take them to the beach house this weekend. I feel it's to soon. I don't know if the OW will be there. I have an appointment with my attorney on Wed. We will see then.
I just wish the hurt would stop. I do so good untill I hear about him. How all he cares about is when he can get his stuff out of the house. It makes me sick. How can someone that was so trusting become so hurtful. Please help me get through this. I feel so alone.
Re: I filed today and can't stop crying dgiirl: BarbJo, I'm sorry for your pain. I remember very clearly how my husband was in such a rush to finalize everything. He totally blindsighted me with his request for a divorce and then he simply left. He was adamant about settling everything within the first 2 months, but I was in such pain and agony I couldnt think straight. I finally had it and told him to back off because if he doesnt he'll regret it. He finally did after I went to see my own lawyer. Try to take as much time as you need to get over the pain. It's not an easy thing to go through, but you're not alone. Ojar is great support to help us all with our pain. :(
*hugs*
Re: I filed today and can't stop crying sourpuss: you're not alone.
it will get easier. eventually.
