Peace of mind steve2: Hi, Iam steve from 'is my wife gay posts' this site has been of so much help to me its untrue. most recent develpomants are. after all the tears, heartbreak and lies a end is in sight. Someone on here said'Funny how you feel better' When there is nothing you can do to change your ex mind. As well as dealing with her leaving me for another woman and all that stress I would have had her back in a heartbeat. But its the lies I could not take. and even though she had no need for anyomre she still is doing it now. so yes I feel much better. The kids are still messed up and they need to see me strong and happy and then they will cope. Muisc has helped me also! my other passion..when I met my wife as a 16 year old girlfriend I brought her 'Lionel Richie and Truly' She had a song every xmas for 20 years. Listening to old or sad songs wont help..at the moment for me its 'Kelly Clarkson and Since you been gone' played very loud and pround. As the songs says '' Since you been gone, I can get what I want for the first time'
I am stronger and more proud of my kids than ever and if any dads or mums on here have the kids or get access and have bad days just say 'ITS GREAT TO BE A DAD OR MUM''
Thanks
steve
Re: Peace of mind AmyMarie1972: Hi Steve,
So happy to hear that you are doing so much better, and things will get even better than they are right now with time. You are a great father and your kids will get through this with your help.
It is great to discover that the future is not the big black cloud that it once seemed to be.
Take care
Amy
Re: Peace of mind Samarra: Hey Steve,
What a great post! I'm so glad you're feeling stronger and like Amy says....it can only get better.
You're kids are lucky to have you.
I hope people new to this site will read this and take heart in knowing that what seems so bleak right now....will soon fade and turn around with time.
Good Luck to you!
Re: Peace of mind Cowboy12: Good post Steve, everytime I feel angry, resentful, etc. I turn it on it's head, [when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change"> and I think of gratitude, of having my health, my 4 wonderful kids, my great job, family etc...
Its not what I lost when my wife cheated, it's what I gained.
Cowboy.
Re: Peace of mind steve2: Thanks for your kind comments and if I have helped one person i will be very proud I could help. Its all your stories and support that have been inspireing me. As for cowboys quote ''Its not what I lost when my wife cheated, it's what I gained''. Fantasic and just the attitude to have. I will be popping back in time but for now I am back to work soon and re starting my new excitng life..omg dating!!!
steve
