Re: Hello! - Back Again! - Brief Update. dulok68: [quote"> I think your feelings are perfectly normal. She's had a PA, and now that some time has passed, you are starting to resent the fact that she did it. And I think that resentment is starting to cloudy up your love towards your wife. If you really want to save your marriage, you need to work through that resentment by communicating it, and not keeping it in trying to protect your wife.
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Hmm, yes, I think you are right, looking at it like that, it is my resentment that is in danger of messing it up.
Along with a lot of others, I've lost weight, working less, taking more time about my own looks - (including putting a black colour on the hair to hide the grey! - no one outside the family home has mentioned it). Wife thought it would be a good idea, I have say she was right. BUT this is where I am going with this, although she is telling me how much younger, or good looking I am etc... It is making me feel that her feelings towards me are shallow?
Like you all say, time for a chat about it - back to my old problem of not speaking up about my feelings... cheers. Will pop back with an update sometime. Trying to stay off the board, it stirs up bad emotions at times, even though it helps to get things off the chest every now and then.
