Will they ever feel the hurt? rhhope: I am crushed right now that my wife is leaving me and she could care less. She has shed no tears and has pretty much checked out of the relationship while I have been fighting for us. My question is will she ever realize the lost of giving up on a marriage. Will she ever break down and cry like I have. Has anyone had an ex come back and realize their mistake? Does karma ever come into play in these situations?
Re: Will they ever feel the hurt? EssieDotCom: i wish i could offer you a ray of hope. But alas, this works both ways. My husband has shown no emotion about whats going on either. I'd like to see at least a little tears, or some emotion about all fo this. perhaps stress is an emotion about things, not sure, but I know he's stressed. best of luck to you and God bless.
Re: Will they ever feel the hurt? PickingUpThePieces: My husband just left Saturday..he's been back since then to get more things and both times leaving he showed emotion...crying. Unfortunately that doesn't seem to make it any easier. It's like, if both of us are hurting, why, why just not go to counseling and try to deal with the issues. I know I can't make him do it. It hurts like hell.
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Re: Will they ever feel the hurt? Lumpy: Unfortunatly the leaver has an emotional head start. More than likely she's been mulling this over for awhile. (without bothering to tell you) She makes her decision without any input or interferance from you. Then she drops the bomb and you're left to clean up the mess. If she has any feelings for you at all it will catch up to her in some degree. I think that while the leavee is in that begging, pleading, why me phase that it's easier for them to be cold and unfeeling.
Re: Will they ever feel the hurt? clare710: Its just not human to be able to hurt another human this much though.
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