Re: Will they ever feel the hurt? kaya26: I feel your pain. I agree they are way ahead emotionally. They have experienced their grief and pain. Most likely without sharing it with you. I am in the same boat as you. My wife left and jumped into another relationship shortly after. I believe she thinks it will solve all of her problems. She is running away from the issues she has as well as the ones we had in our marriage. I believe in Karma and I also believe that things happen for a reason. It has been a really tough few months. I broke down today becasue the pharmacy called and said that my wife's birth control was ready. I wanted to destroy everything in the apt!! Sorry to get off topic. I believe one day she will realise what she had done and to what extent she has hurt not only me but my family and hers. As for regrets?? Who knows? Only time will tell. I hope she does...some day! And feels the pain that I have endured and continue to feel. It is no picnic to be tossed aside by someone you gave your heart to. Thinking they have no emotion about the situation at all. For me my wife already gave herself emotionally(now physically) to someone else so it was easy to walk away. Now she is still in the honeymoon phase. When the dust all settles???? Who knows what will happen?
Re: Will they ever feel the hurt? judy: I'm banking on karma --- they have to realize it someday how much they hurt us.
Judy
Re: Will they ever feel the hurt? jackass: Not that it matters to me at this point, b ut I bank on Karma too.
rhhope, hang in there. Don't wait around like I did and make a fool of yourself. just hang in there. wish i had more to say.
Re: Will they ever feel the hurt? insomnia: it will hurt- trust me. if you love the person and leave them for reasons other than cheating- then you will feel pain... how you deal with it and show it is the thing... i dealt with it in a variety of ways- checking out basically because i needed to recover but eventually i could not stop all the pain from coming on and it is very painful. he thinks that i showed no emotion and continued life in a wonderful way- how far he was from the truth. i continued life because i had to, in order to know that there was nothing wrong with me after all these years of thinking so. it was either continue with life or cry....
