How cold is this? dgiirl: Sheesh, I cant stand the fact that my stbxh and I are negotiating the terms of our divorce via email. How freakin lame is that?
Oh well, he just better not piss me off again.
Re: How cold is this? genesplicer: I'm on the divorce by email train too. If it doesn't require a qualified professional or an immediate signature then it's a curt business-style email.
As my stbx has said (in one of these emails) - Divorce is an exercise in paperwork. (Not like the last 10 years of feelings might play a role, right?)
Anyway, I agree, it's pretty lame and sucks big time. No real advice for you, but you're sure as heck not alone. :-\
Re: How cold is this? freovir: i wish i was on this boat. at least i'd have something in writing. and cold is good when going through this bullschween. it's business, all business.
-fre
Re: How cold is this? jillieb44: That's okay. That's all I can manage with the ex these days. I called him today to tell him that our daughter forgot something she needed for a lesson he was taking her to, and then he informed me that he was on his way to my house!! right then!! and *I* was on my way to my house...and so was My Fling!!!!!!!!
So the ex says, oh if you're going to be home, I'll leave (son) with you. And I'm like uh, no, and he's like, why? Like I'm gonna freakin' tell him. So I said I had plans and he got all pissed...you have plans?! And I said, yes, I did and I would pick him up at 7:30 as planned (this was 5:30) and I'd then pick daughter up from lesson.
When I picked up son he cracked the door and said he'd send him out. Totall A$$. That's okay. That way I just don't have to deal with him....
I hate him....
And now son wants to invite him to the birthday party I'm throwing at *my* house....cuz the ex can't do anything.....
Jillie
Re: How cold is this? dgiirl: aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh... now he's freaking out on me because he has to file a petition to go to court, and is mad at me for filing. WTF. I've never been divorced before! I dont know what the hell he's b*tching about. My lawyer told me to file, so I filed. Now I find out i "sued" him, and he has to go to court, and it's causing him so much stress, and he's losing money here and there and blah blah blah. Poor little him. Honestly, I didnt realize I was "suing" him. I simply followed my lawyers advice who got the ball rolling after my stbxh waited 5 months sitting on his behind doing nothing. He's such a passive aggressive it's unbelievable! Poor little him. He makes me feel guilty for every single thing I do. I cant have an independent thought without him telling me i'm wrong. aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaargh
I need to get out of this house and it's not even up for sale! F*ck it's going to take forever and he cant do a damn thing. Life is always so stressful for him. I'm sick and tired of doing everything. He's the one who wanted a divorce and yet he's done zip all to get it. And when I do something to help speed it along, I get guilt tripped because it was the "wrong" action. Buddy, you're the one who wants the divorce. This is how you get a divorce. You see a lawyer and he tells you want to do and voila, you have a divorce.
I simply cannot win!
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