no chemistry tbird: so i met this guy M online and we seemed to hit it off. exchanged photos, liked what we saw, talked on the phone for a long time, emailed in teh day at work. arranged to meet for coffee last night. sat chatting at coffee for over 2 hours. next day, no email. so i emailed him to say hi. he emails back, you're a sweet girl BUT no chemistry.
what is it that men want? i just feel that dating is hopeless. i'm not going to find anyone for me. its a lost cause. i should just give up and save myself the hassle.
Re: no chemistry sourpuss: it's not hopeless. this guy is not for you. some other guy will be.
never mind what men want, what do YOU want?
keep kissing those frogs, eventually one of them will turn into a prince. or at least a duke.
Re: no chemistry jillieb44: I've gotten that a lot, too. He's just not for you. I've learned not to take it personally any more. You just can't. Otherwise it gets too painful. BTDT.
Jillie
Re: no chemistry tbird: thanks guys,
i'm just so tired of rejection. my last boyfriend said i had too low self esteem. well how can it get any better when all the guys say is that there is no chemistry. can i not be anyone's type?
its frustrating. hard not to take it personally ..
Re: no chemistry Grinning_Madly: [quote author=tbird link=topic=18087.msg159856#msg159856 date=1125517725">
so i met this guy M online and we seemed to hit it off. exchanged photos, liked what we saw, talked on the phone for a long time, emailed in teh day at work. arranged to meet for coffee last night. sat chatting at coffee for over 2 hours. next day, no email. so i emailed him to say hi. he emails back, you're a sweet girl BUT no chemistry.
what is it that men want? i just feel that dating is hopeless. i'm not going to find anyone for me. its a lost cause. i should just give up and save myself the hassle.
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He's politely telling you goodbye.
Don't sweat this guy. YOu'd be wasting your time on him anyways.
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