Re: no chemistry Shanna: I know it hurts to be turned down. Just think you didn't waste any time on a guy who wasn't that into you. HE was honest enough to just tell you. The right guy is out there you just have to go out with some loooosssaaaas in between.
HUGS girl. I know it hurts....heck I was stood up like two weeks ago and it still pisses me off.
Re: no chemistry clambakesX: Like Sourpuss said - did you look hard at whether you were interested in =him=?
Last Thursday, I met a (fairly tall) guy from on-line for coffee and he told me I was too tall for him. (WTF? My height was in my profile, and I'd even rounded UP half a centimeter!) I've had practice and should be hardened by now, but even =that= was hard not to take personally.
As for self-esteem - it's key to separate that from what men think of you. Hard, since we're raised to measure all our self-worth on how we can score with what kind of men. But as I make progress, I find I feel better and better.
Re: no chemistry tbird: I actually thought he was very cute, but i dont know whether it was me seeing it in his face or not seeing it,but i didnt find much of a 'connection'. Its just weird that we connected or thought we did on the phone and online. he said i was beautiful from the photos i sent him but then when it comes to meeting in person i guess he didnt think so. guess my mom was right. i should have brushed my bangs back off my face. that might have helped.
oh well. its just all in all not a good feeling and i'm pms which makes it worse! I just feel like crawling up in bed wtih a sleeping pill or drinking wine till i fall on my face.
Re: no chemistry ti-poux: tbird,
Don't despair, you will find your perfect man...you at least got
some respect from that guy, he thought highly enough to let
you know and not string you along. That should count for something.
Please don't crawl up in bed...and stay the person you are...bangs or
no bangs...always be true to yourself
Be strong girl
Chantal
Re: no chemistry tbird: thanks again guys,
but 2.5 hours for coffee is not stringing along? i know, it could have been worse. maybe its the pms really getting me down. i jsut havent felt this down in a long long time.
honestly, my perfect man doesnt exist. or he did and then went and climbed some mountain and fell and died, the stupid ass!
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actually i'd like to shoot something right now. all the men that have made me feel miserable.
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