Feelings towards her confused_guy: Ok, I have a question that has probably been out here before.
My wife filed for divorce about a month ago and the paperwork is just about finished and she is moving out this Friday. I have a friend that is of the opposite gender and we get along great! We went to an activity this past weekend, which had us together for most of the day and it went very well. People thought we were dating and it did not frighten either of us when we were approached like that. I believe I have feelings for her, something more than just good friendship type of feelings. Should I tell her? If so, how should/would I do this? Or, is it better to just be good friends and have that forever than possibly ruining things by making a move, etc?
Thanks
Re: Feelings towards her turning leaf: Enjoy the feeling. Do not tell her anything, do not over-analyze your feelings (trust me it's not stable yet). When the excitement and thrill slows down, that's when you 'audit' and evaluate your feelings towards this person or ask yourself if you want to be with another person very soon after the fact.
have fun. stay clear of rebound.
Re: Feelings towards her Suddenly Single: Considering where you are at with your divorce..... I would do what Turning Leaf said. You are in some very unstable ground yet - your feelings are not yet settled down. There is lots going on and a lot you probably can't see. Just enjoy the friendship for now. If when things settle down you feel the same then you can reevaluate your feelings. But in the meantime - "stay clear of rebound"
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