Re: 2 weeks today since "d" day... Dolphin Close: [quote author=BigRunner493 link=topic=18502.msg165193#msg165193 date=1126444125">
i can't begin to understand what it's like living together but only as roomates...must be very difficult. i've read many posts by ojarians that are doing or did the same thing.
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Count me in. I slept in our bed and he slept on the couch in the living room or in an inflatable mattress for 2 weeks. It was very very difficult and awkward. There were nights that I couldn't bear that arrangement that sometimes I'd spend nights in a friend's house so we won't have to pass each other going to the bathroom (tiny 1 bdrm apartment ). We didn't even say good night to each other. Nothing. Like strangers in a cheap hostel.
PUTP, I hope one of you moves out of that house ASAP because it's emotionally draining to be under the same roof without harmony or a little bit of communication. It's very painful to come home to a place you used to call home and to open that door and be embraced by a chilly, dreary atmosphere.
Re: 2 weeks today since "d" day... PickingUpThePieces: I have begun looking at apartments. We have been talking but tonight had an argument about splitting stuff up. Of course, he said he is always looking out for me and thinking of me. (yeah? So then why do you want to keep the big screen tv that credit under my name got instead of sell it??). I also called a lawyer yesterday and have an appt. next Thursday. I just want to get the ball rolling and figure out the paperwork and start the process of getting divorced. It just hit me tonight as he was talking about how manipulative he can be to make me feel guilty/bad and how bad about myself I felt. It hit me so clearly that I don't want to be around that anymore and don't want to let him make me feel that way anymore...as sad as I am, that getting divorced and moving on with my life is the best thing.
