Are ya kidding me?!
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Are ya kidding me?! Smiley17: So today the stbx was supposed to take the boys, but he called me 2 days ago to tell our older son that he couldn't.

He's in CA for who knows what reason, and instead of talking to me about it earlier in the week, he calls our son 2 days before he was supposed to take them, and tells him!!!! Ok, at least this time he didn't run with his tail between his legs, so maybe he's getting a little bit better, but still...

Ok, so I can NEVER plan ANY day trips because he only takes his kids for about 6 hours every other Saturday, and it's in the middle of the day, and all they eat with him are freakin donuts, but to call just 2 days before to say that you're not coming?! Are ya kidding me?!  >:(

Now he's going to go yet another month without seeing his kids... again...

I know there are some people out here who's ex never sees the kids, but for only 12 hours per month, and only 6 hours this month, how are we supposed to raise healthy boys this way?

What if they turn out to be like him? Emotionally abusive and disrespectful towards women, because they don't have their father around.

You know what? Freak that! I'LL raise them to be respectful and healthy boys!! They'll grow up knowing how to treat a woman because I'LL teach them!!! Freak him! I'll show that LOOOZZZAAA!!!!

Dammit!!!! I freakin HATE that guy!!!!!!!  >:( >:( >:(
Re: Are ya kidding me?! tyrogers: :-*  {{{BIG HUGS}}}  :-*


BBH


Re: Are ya kidding me?! Smiley17: Thanks, Girl!!!
Re: Are ya kidding me?! ddgissi: They WON'T turn out like him, I promise, because they've got you, and you rock.  I'm curious, did they want to talk to you about how often they see him?  Do they seem upset?

And of course, what is WRONG with him????
Re: Are ya kidding me?! Smiley17: Thank you very much for that!!

They don't really say anything other than, "Are we going with daddy today?", and that's only on the Saturdays he sees them. They have the routine down, but today, I made up for them not being able to see him, so all is well right now.

I do my best, which I know is something we all do!  ;)

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