My son's first visit with daddy wendieann: My STBXH hasn't seen his children in a month now...and I had to be the one to get this visit started..! >:(
My mother-in-law agreed to take my 18month old to see his dad... Oh, I am so glad I won't be there... To see his excitement, and then to be yanked away from him tomorrow.... >:( Plus, I suggested to MIL to take the baby to go and pick up my son...for the quick visit...
I said, "SOO, is he going to take him for the night like I suggested or what? >:( As is, I have been waiting 3 days for an answer, which is rude.." My MIL said, "I think so...if not, BS18m can stay with me." Okay, fine with me...
I packed for his first day with daddy...That was hard... :'( (I only put in a few items, and 2 diapers. I wrote a note that said, "there is only 2 diapers, he takes a size 4, I know these ones are too small but they fit him and his sister, for now....." Since, I have not been given any money for child support, I can't afford to send diapers...he can damn well get them! >:(
I am excited for my son, but sad for me. How any man can give up seeing his children daily, is beyond me... :((esp. when they had the choice)
Send me strength today...
and send my little one strength to leave daddy tomorrow.... :'(
ps. I also kept a copy of my note, incase, he tries to say I didn't send anything, etc....
Re: My son's first visit with daddy hardened_heart1970: hello. heres some thought from my pea sized brain....
if the guy doesnt care about his kid, to SEE THEM, or to even pay his child support, are you sure your MIL will see to it, that the kid gets new diapers?
i was thinking, that he might say, well, i have 2 diapers, and make your kids sit in poo...
im not second guessing you as a mom, just 3,4,5 guess him as a dad.....
i hope hes good, for your kids sake...... good luck.
Re: My son's first visit with daddy wendieann: Hi, well, he would go and buy diapers...but complain the whole time...
For my kids sake they need him...
It is very hard on me...knowing someone other woman is helping him with my babies...
I helped him with his son...I meet him 6 months after his first separation, and I met his son right away...Who was 3 at the time... Guess what I did... I jumped right in and helped... After all, it impressed him that I was so good with his son, etc.etc. SOOO, any woman wanting to be with him, has to get along with his babies and help!
My son isn't home yet, MIL will be picking up the baby to go and get his brother... I trust her...
Re: My son's first visit with daddy wendieann: :'( Well, as soon as MIL took off with my baby I started crying. This isn't suppose to happen to me! or to us... daddy should be here!! :'(
I wrote a little note saying, please do not give her a bottle she was just fed and should be fine for a few hours...bring her home when she needs me...
They at least respected that, and when they brought her home I nursed her...and cried... :'(
Seeing both my babies, brought tears to my eyes and this is just the beginning...
My 18month was wearing diapers that he must of bought... It almost seems like I am forcing him to be part of their lives... He never helped out when he lived here, in fact for the past 2 months was never home...
He is doing more with them, hopefully, than he did here... It makes me sick to think of his g/f holding them...
I won't be calling him to beg him to see them... I asked in a note to take them Tues night, and no response....
sigh...breathe.... I can do it...
Re: My son's first visit with daddy OneMist8k: I'm with Crazy Willy.
You replied with "For my kids sake, they need him"
May I kindly amend that to, "For my kids sake, they need a father who wants them?"
When I got divorced, not being with my children was torture. I anticipated our custody time together with great eagerness, cherished each moment, and missed them when they were gone.
Is this guy that clueless? ???
Is seems his MO is to leave the mother of his children when they have little ones.
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