Help clare710: He's comming round in 1 hour to tell me about how he's met someone else.
I think im preparing myself, but how can i??
I already know from reading his messages on his phone, im not proud but i did.
Just when i could see light at the end of the tunnel.
Cant cope with this.
Re: Help EssieDotCom: well then tell him you have plans.......you're not home... if you are not ready to handle this, then don't. It could really mess with your emotions and put you back and step 1. God bless you... I just wish there was more I could say here.
Re: Help clare710: i think if i say im busy it'll just put off the inevitable to another day and ill feel like this for longer.
I feel sick and used and awful. Hes still been comming round here and sleeping with me for the month since he left.
Ive been so stupid.
I just need to harden myself and get it over with, it hurts so much.
I feel like ive been knocked down by a bus and i was just picking myself up and another one comes around the corner.
Re: Help EssieDotCom: I see, so you got to get tough... develop that "I could care less" mood and don't let him take advantage of your feelings anymore. I know it's harder to do than to say, trust me I have been there in the past. But please try not to give into him anymore. It seems to me he's using your feelings to get what he wants. So, try taking a deep breath.... look yourself in the mirror and say "I deserve so much better than this!" when he comes over and tells you that he's found someone new just kind of get in this Mood, don't let him see you upset about it, or he will know he can controll you and get what he wants bc of your emotions. Trust me on that one, I've been used like that before. I wish there was more i could do for you. Maybe if you had a good friend who could be there with you or at least in another room of the house so when he leaves and you think you're gona lose it you'll have someone who cares for you around. best of luck to you sweetie and God bless.
Re: Help clare710: Im left in the 1 bed flat we used to share. Ive got my support around ready for the afterwards but nothing helps the excrutiating pain.
Right, im hardening myself, going through all he could say to hurt me and preparing for it.
oh ive never done anything this hard, this hurts so much.
He was here until 6am this morning and he never found a way to tell me.
This is so twisted and messed up and i wanted to come through this ok, but im not strong, i was only just making it but i dont know now.
help me, i know you cant but words really help.
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