Anyone with an opinion ... jadedangel: [color=navy"> Ok ... now this is just me ...I am just not sure how to interpret my best friends .. boyfriend.
Background to the story --- basically they have been going out for about 7 months, she has 2 kids -- he moved in with them and helps her quite a bit, but her kids aren't ready to have a 'new father' so .. their relationship has sorta been in super slow motion -- waiting for her kids to pick up the pace ...
Anyhow ... he's been kina acting wierd around me and I don't know how to interpret. He is always asking her to ask me over ... he calls me without even talking to her -and asks me over .... Then today he calls me out of the blue and wants to come over and see my snake --- um ... okay.. sure I guess so. He is super friendly with me -- cuddly, hugging and always kissing me on the cheek (not too abnormal and he does that in front of her) ... Well today when he came over -- without her --- he asked about my ex, told me not to worry about him .. and tried to kiss me. Okay ... I am like .. whoa buddy .. what's going on ---
Now .. he is turkish and very traditional and I don't know if I am just misinterpreting actions because I don't trust anyone ...... but, seriously --- I will absolutely not lose my friend over this guy but I don't know how to deal with it. She lives with him .. thinks he is great -- he treats her well, but I know they are frustrated. I don't want to jump to conclusions ...and be completely wrong ... but, I don't want him to think that is how it is with me. I am not trusting the vibe I am getting --
What do you guys think about this -- [/color">
Re: Anyone with an opinion ... alonewith2: Limit your contact with him to only times when you are around your friend! That's what I would do....and if he continues to make you feel uncomfortable then you need to tell him.
Re: Anyone with an opinion ... half full: Don't ever be alone with this guy.Who knows it could have just been a momont of weakness for him,but I think it is a good idea to never find out.Dave
Re: Anyone with an opinion ... AloneandCold: I have to agree with limiting your contact with him to just when your friend is around. Ugh, what an awkward situation.
Re: Anyone with an opinion ... Suddenly Single: Yes - trust your gut and limit contact. Do not be alone with him. I agree with everyone.
