Re: 2.5 Years...still can't get over ex!! malko: Just wanted to say, good for you to turning him down and not havign second thoughts about it. I think atht is a vvvv positive sign. As for councelling, if this is bothering you so much after 2.5 yrs, sure you should spend some time on self-development including a shrink and reading books etc. If you were in a vulnerable place at the time, it is only natural that his cruel words should affect you but it is time you do something about it and move on from that point in your life. After all he is only an ass and you shouldn't let it bother you anymore.
All in all ,well done and good luck