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(Sigh) AloneandCold: Why the F does he think he has to tell me this stuff for?

Him: I was talking to W today (some guy I used to work with for about 3 months, barely knew the guy. three years ago, haven't talked to or seen him since) and he pissed me off.

Me: Oh yeah, why is that?

Him: Because we were talking about how I (I being the ex) was single and he started going off on how butt ugly you are.  I just wanted to tell you.

Me:......................... Um..... Why did you think you needed to tell me this?

Him: Because it pissed me off.

Now all of this was said with a more or less happy tone.  Personally I'm not a barbie doll, but I am not butt ugly either.  I think the guy was trying to console my ex since I left him, maybe?  The last I knew the guy thought I was an okay person...  What I don't get is why the hell he felt he needed to tell me this.  It shouldn't matter but it really hit my self confidence a little.  Ok a lot, I even went and stared at the mirror for a minute.  :-[    ???  I come back out of the bathroom

Him: What's wrong?

Me:.............................................

(Sigh)
Re: (Sigh) half full: Sounds kinda passive agressive.

I mean why tell somone something like that.All it would do is make a person feel bad about themselves.

So sorry,and try not to let it get you down.


Re: (Sigh) tyrogers: Bug, honey, I gotta come spend some time with you.  Gotta boost that esteem some!  ;)  Gotta get ya up there where when or if someone says something like that to you, the first thing you do is smile and blast em with a great comeback!!  :D

Want me to come kick his ass?  I could use a chance to vent some frustration! 

:-*  YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL (INSIDE AND OUT) AND OTHER PEOPLE AREN'T.  THAT'S WHY THEY DO THINGS LIKE THAT!  REMEMBER THAT OK?

BBH
Re: (Sigh) jadedangel: [color=navy"> Are you really going to listen to some guy you already had the sense to leave ?  I mean honestly ... I think they are right -- sounds like he is trying to hit you where he can --- could be quite an exaggeration ... you know how the gossip game goes...


It always goes back to that whole bit --- beauty is more than skin deep -- This world loves to focus on the beauty of  the physical body when really ... life entails so much more -- don't let him take your self confidence down .. not one bit because really I think you know better than that ...  [/color">
Re: (Sigh) paul76: The only thing I have to say about this is...........

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL.......INSIDE AND OUT!!!!!

Dont listed to that F**KHEAD, he is a just a loser who isnt dealing with that fact that you are HAPPY very well.

Dont let a guy like that decide how YOU feel about YOU!



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