Re: Single with 4 kids!?! tyrogers: I didn't think anyone would want me either. After all, what man wants to get involved with a woman with two children and two ex husbands? As you can see, it all works out. ;)
Chin up. There is someone out there for us all. Regardless of our "baggage". Love is love. You overlook the past and look to the future.
BBH
Re: Single with 4 kids!?! Suddenly Single: My boyfriend said a similar thing a year ago...who would want a balding, thirty___ year old with 3 kids.
I did and still do. ;D
There are single people out there with no kids that will not run from someone with children.
Re: Single with 4 kids!?! mydarkdreams: Sweetie, I said the very same thing..
I have a teenager with teenage issues, a child on the autistic spectrum, and a 4 year old - I wondered who in their right mind would want to get involved with me...
Just when I wasn't looking, I found the most wonderful man *ever* he is a single dad to two, so he understands the plight of single parenthood - yes, together we have 5 kids (yikes!! ages 13, nearly 12, 10, 6, and 4) but he is truly wonderful..
But like you I thought the very same thing. *hug* hang in there hun
Re: Single with 4 kids!?! AfterMath: [quote author=amola link=topic=18565.msg165525#msg165525 date=1126493429">
oh boy....
i am right there with you.....i have 3 wonderful kids who are almost 6, 4, and 15 months. had all of them with my now ex-husband. started dating after our divorce, and got pregnant. i'm now about 19 weeks along, and the baby's father is gone (actually, he's with his OTHER girlfriend, who is about 10 weeks along...but that's a whole 'nother story).....
anyway, i was scared to death that no one would want me. especially being pregnant. so i figured well, ok, after i have the baby maybe it won't be so bad to try to date.
but.....it looks like my situation might be changing.....there is someone out there who is willing to accept me and ALL of my children.....and i can't even begin to tell you what an amazing feeling that is.....just take your time.....
yes, there are going to be guys who will run screaming the other direction when they find out that you have 4 kids. and those guys aren't worth the effort anyway. but somewhere, there is a guy who is perfect. and you'll find him when you're least expecting it...
{{{HUGS}}}
:)
amola
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I glad we found each other Amola. You make me happy. My late afternoon did not. Tell ya 'bout it later...it sucked.
J
Re: Single with 4 kids!?! Kameee: I gotta be honest here (as always) ... if I found an wonderful man who had 10 kids... it wouldn't matter.. as long as I loved him and he loved me... kids are a blessing... whether its 1 or 100. I know I'm not the only person on the planet that feels that way. So just hang in there and the right man will come along.
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