Question For Y'all Bubba: I was talking to one of my fellow Ojar guys recently, and part of the conversation got me to thinking about a question:
Ladies, do you like it when your man "lays claim" to you so to speak. Meaning if another guy comes "sniffing" around, your man steps in and bascially lets the other guy know to back off, that you are HIS woman. Your man either does this by body language, verbally, or both.
Guys, do you do find yourself "laying claim" so to speak, and if so how, and how is it received when you do it? If not, what do you do, if you react at all, when I guy is hitting on your woman?
Bubba
Re: Question For Y'all tyrogers: My man "lays claim" all the time. I LOVE IT. HOWEVER, my man knows when to "lay claim", he only does it if it is necessary.
BBH
Re: Question For Y'all AloneandCold: Lets say we are out and some guy comes up and tries to flirt with me.
I would want my man to maybe come over and put his arm around me, give me a kiss, or something else equally non aggressive.
I would not want my man to get stupid about it though, make a scene, get pissed, or really even say anything.
I know who I am with, he knows who I am with, and with the above mentioned non aggressive moves the other guy would figure out real quick who I am with. (Providing I hadn't told him to go take a hike yet, then he would know earlier)
Re: Question For Y'all dgiirl: I would have appreciated my ex to show a little concern over guys. But he didnt care or never claimed too. There's a fine line with it. You dont want a guy too possessive, because I do have some guy friends who are just friends. But a little show of concern is nice from time to time, especially around strangers or new guys
Re: Question For Y'all AmyMarie1972: I went out the other night with my boyfriend and a guy in the club we were in just would not stop staring at me. Well my boyfriend just said come on lets go and stand over there and he took my hand and lead me to another part of the club. I was happy that it bothered him but that he dealt with it calmly.
My boyfriend has said on a few occasions that if a guy bothers me he will have a word, but I do tell him that i can pretty much take care of myself. It is great though knowing that he does feel a need to protect me and that I am his.
Amy
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