how long with the pain last? unhappy: how long untill i feel normal and happy again. i miss everything we had
and i have been trying to do normal things but i am just numb. i dont cry but i walk around like a zombie. i never felt so alone like no one cares like i dont matter. i know a man shouldn't complete me. is it normal to be so out of it? how long does this last- why do i feel so "my world is over". why cant i just be a big girl dust myself off and move on? am i crazy? i just want to eat and sleep and think normal again.
Re: how long with the pain last? admin: Checkout these articles,
http://ojar.com/essays2.php
Especially the I wrote called, "Get OVER it!"
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Re: how long with the pain last? Lome: Honestly, it takes a heck of a long time to just get back to normal....
with that said, break you life it to little chuncks of time and find some joy in those....a half of an hour of walking in the park, alone, and crying is still better than crying and being alone at your house. Spoil yourself....love yourself....you have to re-create your world.
give yourself goals and time frames....keep positive, fake it if you have to...pray if that gives you some comfort.....just keep moving forward.
know that you will get threw this! make yourself a better and more caring you!
know that we will be here to help if you need us!
feel free to pm
Re: how long with the pain last? unhappy: thank you--
i am new to online anything--what does pm mean?
Re: how long with the pain last? husky: felt the same way as you when i broke up. that was about 2.5 mths ago.
things will get better. it did for me. although i still cry sometimes when i think about it, but it is definitely better now compared to the early weeks. just tell yourself what will be, will be and what will not be, will not be.
weekends are the hardest to bear, if you are the sort who spend every weekends with your ex. but after a few weekends without him, you sort of get used to it. hang out with friends, shop, make yourself beautiful and attractive. don't mope around at home.
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