Met a nice guy... now what? Candygirl: Just a warning... this maybe a bit long...
A few weeks ago I met a really nice guy at the local bar/dance club. He works in my building on a different floor and I see him in the elevator every so often. I always kinda thought he was cute, but he never really seemed to pay too much attention to me.
Anyways, at the bar I'm standing by the dance floor with my drink and he comes up to me and says 'hey, i remeber you, you work in my building, i always see you on the elevator.' He introduces me to his friends that he's with and we talk for a bit. I wander around the bar a bit and talk to a few people I know. Then he comes up to me again and offers to buy me a drink... sooo, that night I end up getting really drunk. By the time he asks me to dance i'm am totally wasted!!! :D So I decide to go home, and we share a taxi and he drops me off at my place... nothing special happens, and he doesn't ask for my phone number.
The next week, I go out again with some friends. And he comes up to me again... says he's been hoping i would show up again 'cause he's really wanted to see me and felt really stupid for not getting my number. We end up spending the whole night dancing and he buys me more drinks. I had so much fun with him and was actually starting to like him. So when the bar closes we leave together and walk for a bit, then he tries to convince me to come over to his place, i'm not a one night stand type of person so i said i just wanted to go home... then we get a taxi and he says he wants to come hang out at my place for a bit.... i said that was cool. In the taxi he was going on about how fate has brought us together and how things just seem like we were meant to be... i didn't really take this seriously 'cause he seemed really drunk, and so was I :P
Back at my place i tell him right away that I don't do the one night stand thing and he says he's cool with that... so i thought great!! We hang out on my couch and he plays a few songs on my guitar which i thought was really nice. Then he tries to kiss me but I back off and he asks me why i won't kiss him... i said it was because i wanted to be sure that i would see him again. Anyways he seemed ok with this and ended up passing out on my couch. So i throw a blanket over him and go to bed. Then at about 7am he wakes me up and asks me to call him a taxi 'cause he's feeling really sick and wants to go home. So, I call him a taxi and we hug, then he says well it was nice to see you and leaves again without getting my number... again, but during the whole time he was really nice and flirty.
So would someone please tell me what the heck must be going through his head... because he said he really liked me then doesn't ask for my number?? ???
Should i just give him my number whether he asks for it or not?? I've seen him at the gym the other day and i can't really tell wether he likes me or not, he came up and talked to me, but still never got my number??
Anyways, I've never dated alot, so I find this guy really confusing... someone please give me some advice!!! :-\
Re: Met a nice guy... now what? hollygolightly: It has been my experience that "nice guys" don't pass out on my couch, don't drink so much they get sick, and don't invite themselves over to my place when in a drunken stupor. But that's just me.
About the phone number thing, if he's really into you, he'll ask for or find out your phone number. Don't volunteer it, let him do the work.
Re: Met a nice guy... now what? turning leaf: Maybe he just forgets to get your number when u bump into each other? Or maybe because he knows one way or the other he'll get that number in the 'elevator' any way. Don't give him your number if he's not asking for it. Remember guys love the thrill of the chase so....just u wait ;)
And passing out on your couch? HHmmmm. ::)
Re: Met a nice guy... now what? Candygirl: [quote author=hollygolightly link=topic=18608.msg166107#msg166107 date=1126555946">
It has been my experience that "nice guys" don't pass out on my couch, don't drink so much they get sick, and don't invite themselves over to my place when in a drunken stupor. But that's just me.
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LoL... maybe your right!!! You made it sound so funny, i'm sitting at my desk at work laughing... my co-workers must thing i'm crazy!! :P
Re: Met a nice guy... now what? Lumpy: [quote author=hollygolightly link=topic=18608.msg166107#msg166107 date=1126555946">
It has been my experience that "nice guys" don't pass out on my couch, don't drink so much they get sick, and don't invite themselves over to my place when in a drunken stupor. But that's just me.
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True, but does she want a nice guy? I agree with the others. Let him ask for your #.
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